Bright Sides Glimmering Everywhere – Despite or Perhaps Because of My Raging ADHD?
Think I will start by saying thanks to you Wickedly Wonderful Witches who slipped into my DMs today. And the lovely, patient women who keep in contact through the years on social media or IRL. My Coven really delivered some serious safe and magical vibes as I bopped around the city not doing the things I ought to be doing.
Today was a Tuesday.
Day started a bit wobbly… I am feeling like an asshole because I am overdue for uploading/sharing the top ten for the photo comp I ran (rather successfully might I add!) in April.
I am so bad at deadlines. So. Fucking. Unbelievably bad.
HOWEVER…
Avoiding doing things I ought to be doing has always been a magical wonderland where I am a fucking weapon at doing other, unrelated tasks.
Today I was a machine.
Arranged house-sitting and childcare situation for the month of November. The cat and our house are going to be absolutely pampered while Damon and I are pinching ourselves hiking through the Himalayas in the private and mysterious Kingdom of Bhutan.
Op-shopped up a storm and scored a bunch of bargains at the Habitat for Humanity store in Wairau. I picked up a proper (slightly scuffed but fit a treat) pair of Christian Loubouton sparkly heels. I will likely never own another pair, and these were a proper Cinderella moment. Ridiculous amount of money, but I am frugal as fuck with the shoe situation most of the time, and the money goes to a charity I actually admire, so… WINNING!
I also found a delightful designer bag for one of my besties who just got a new job and needs to slay all day while she is well on her way.
I’ve also been manifesting the perfect rain jacket and asking the Oracle to help me find this elusive item. Today, she delivered and I got a shiny/sparkly deep red rain jacket that fit me beautifully for a cool $20. I am gonna wear the absolute SHIT out of this jacket. It is perfect.
Long luxurious chats with a few of my fave goddesses about serious witchy life stuff on the DMs all day. It’s all proper private chatham house rules topics so I won’t share cause it’s none-o-yo-b’ness… suffice to say the synchronicity between us was and is kinda exquisite. I don’t have many friends at this stage of my journey, but I sure do Love and appreciate the handful that have held on and proven they are trustworthy and true.
Also went in to renew Registration on our teeny tiny city sized i3. That’s an electric car for those who don’t recognise the term i3. Her name is D33M0N – which is of course my name and my wife’s name squished together. DEE and daMON – and it’s also the name of our growing and UNBELIEVABLY fun and rewarding company. Gonna be a hot minute before the place is humming along in profitability zone without us, but it is an absolute joy most of the time. Wish everyone could Love their job as much as we do the farm and the eco-retreat. There would be no war, no crime, everyone would just be chill hanging with their chickens and listening to the bananas grow. Or whatever version of that fills them with as much joy as our tiny slice of paradise brings us and our team.
Paid the RUC’s (Road User Charges) for both D33M0N and LOLGAS. $743 for 10,000km for those who were wondering what the chargers are. I do not mind paying road user charges but I do vehemently resent paying the same amount as planet fucking, particulate matter spewing diesel disasters are charged. That is some serious bullshit right there, and exactly the kind of inane and completely ill-advised bollocks I have come to expect from our current cluster fuck of a political administration. Truly confounding.
Ordered three cheapo pairs of spectacles from Oscar Wylee (3 pairs $300… the rate at which I lose glasses I cannot justify spending more).
Got call from school nurse Steph’s still not feeling great and today was her fourth day off school. The school nurse was a sweetheart and agreed Princess Stephanie needs another day to rest tomorrow. This feels pretty okay considering she’s got most of the years required credits (with excellence) and is already applying for universities here, in Australia and Canada.
Organised THREE belated birthday dinners out this week and next. Have also committed to doing some weird early morning exercise situation in Matakana with Sarah on Monday morning first thing. Oracle preserve me I am a little scared!
Shopped for groceries, popped dinner on (roast chicken marinated overnight in oat milk and herbs and spices, highly HIGHLY recommend this recipe… so tender!), video call with the chair of my trust (an elusive but utterly divine goddess… sadly our paths won’t cross now until July as we are all so freaking busy!)
Fed kids, admired our array of happy healthy pot plants (I never had a tidy, safe, calm home or pot plants ever in my life until I moved in with my domestic goddess wife), and was curled up in my jammies by 6:30pm.
AND THEN…
I wrote this blog.
Had no idea what an incredibly busy (and actually painfully expensive thanks to licensing and registration fees) and pleasantly productive day I had until I started writing.
And how utterly blessed I feel to be surrounded by a safe, warm, calm environment. My joy tonight was bubbling over as I chatted with happy, funny, open, and grateful kids. Gosh they are far more settled and self-refelctive than I was at their ages. Perhaps even more than I am now.
Then came the obligatory pats for our needy three-legged rescue cat. His name is Benedict Cumbercat and he is actually a total asshole but we adore him. Tonight also saw me swept up in a moment where I very nearly wept with joy surveying our warm tidy living room full of healthy pot plants and witchy herbs thriving in their eclectic pots I have collected through op-shopping expeditions.
Not even a fraction of these rather wonderful things would have happened today if I wasn’t well and truly tied up in absolute knots about my earth day photo competition dilemma. I must honour those who entered and share the finalists. And I will. And it will feel pretty good I hope.
But, for now, I’m just going to tuck in my ten year old and then slip off into a peaceful slumber thinking about all the big and little things that made today rather magical.